That day.

Writing about the day my Dad died is a strange feeling. I've known deep down that I wanted to post about it but haven't been ready to for awhile and I don't know that I am now but the words have started to flow and I feel this sudden urge to, so I'll continue. I'd…

Caught off guard.

Grief is a strange process, you have good days and bad days, ups and downs and rotate around a mix of every emotion going. I've being living by the mantra, one day at a time, waking up each morning and facing whatever particular feeling it is I'm faced with that day. Sometimes though, it's not…

Another perspective…

I found this blogger's thoughts interesting, it suggests that happy grief enables you to remember someone and enjoy those memories and happy thoughts whilst missing them. Happy Grief What do you think about happy grief? Maybe in time I'll learn to feel more happy grief and this will help me cope. Because it's all about…

Angry that I feel angry

When I started this blog I outlined a couple of rules/guidelines to myself, one of which was not to use bad language (I didn't think it fair/appropriate to swear in a post). Today is an exception, I feel it necessary to curse! This is because losing a parent is shit, really fucking shit! It's so…